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FAQ
Lottery
Fantasy Syndrome radio interview July
9, 2003 with
WBT News
Talk radio in
Charlotte, NC
with
Lynette
J.
Hoy,
NCC,
LCPC
Q: What happens to draw people to spend their hard-earned money
on the Jackpot Lotto?
- A. Many people are grasping at a last ditch hope to solve
their problems and lower stress…. A number of people actually begin
to plan what their future will be like – they are spending the
money before they buy the tickets- “Lottery Fantasy Syndrome” is
a gambling addiction that strikes an estimated 2-4 percent
of the population. Clinical Psychologist Doctor
Lou Perrott says gambling is linked to high
stress levels which can lead to serious health risks. People
think “if
I win the lottery, my life will be significantly improved,
my stress levels will go down.”
Q. What happens when people actually win?
- A. Most of the time, people squander the money and
are broke within a couple of years. I know someone who quit
his job after winning one million dollars.
In a year he had spent it and was begging for his job back- but,
his boss had hired someone else. When people don’t win they go into a depression.
Q: But, I spent only 5 dollars on the lotto – does that
mean I have Lottery Fantasy Syndrome?
- A: Most
likely not.
Q: What about someone who spend 20
dollars?
- A: It
depends on how tight their budget is.
Q: Talk more about the thinking behind this kind of syndrome-
-
A: There are definite cognitive distortions going
on or “stinkin’ thinkin’” such
as fantasy or magical thinking. We talk about cognitive triggers
in What’s
Good About Anger? and how such thinking results in anger
and depression and negative
behavior. "As a man thinketh – so is he." Some
people are convinced they are going to win and when this
dream is
shattered – and
it will be since the odds are so great (in some cases a million
to one. In the large lottos a billion to one) – they
become depressed.
These people are characterized not only by grandiose/magical
thinking but, by:
impulsivity, poor problem-solving skills, depression, scheming
to get rich quick without hard work, stressful living, poor
financial planning and stewardship,
etc.
Q: What are the consequences of putting
all your dreams into the lotto basket?
- A: Your
dreams will be shattered. That's a fact you can count
on "a billion or more to one". First you will have wasted
your time planning for an unrealistic future. You will
have wasted a lot of hard-earned money. You won't gain
back the money or the time and you may ruin
some relationships in the process because of your obsession
with the lotto.
And you won't be planning how to spend your money wisely
or invest it wisely.
Instead,
you will lose money which you need to live comfortably -
money which you have earned, which could pay the bills, provide
for your needs, lower your stress and make realistic
dreams come true.
The trouble with looking for a quick-fix to life's problems
is that you don't learn to process difficulties. You don't
commit to hard-work, character change and long-term goals.
A "quick-fix" attitude is a way to gain the control you
don't feel you have in life. When you feel helpless - you
get frustrated and angry. Anger can lead to some long-term,
negative consequences in relationships and affect work
and personality. Why not get the book: What's
Good About Anger? Begin to process you feelings of helplessness and
frustration in a healthy and goldly way! Read more about Lottery
Fantasy Syndrome.
Read: What can I do to cope with the blues?
How
to Know God Personally,
Read
inspiring
books
such
as:
The
Freedom
from
Depression
Workbook
by
Les
Carter,
Frank
Minirth
or
Keep
Believing:
God
in
the
Midst
of
Our
Deepest
Struggles
by
Ray
Pritchard
or
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out
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selection
of
books
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